I’m done with the Glee community, anonski. L and I did open an original characters wolves RP but I don’t think Glee Wolves is coming back.
It’s water under the bridge buddy I was having an off couple of days. If you come offa anon we can have an in depth conversation about anything you want.
The thing is I don’t mind educating, it’s about prying into someone’s life like you deserve to just know things that pisses me off ask fucking politely or be a bro and then maybe we can talk.
Publishing this because important.
The thing is, you’re not trans so you don’t get it. I’m assuming this, correct me if I’m wrong, because if you were I think you would understand how evasive their message was, and how much damage that could do to a trans* person on a bad day. Hell, even on a good day.
Tumblr is tumblr is the same thing as saying “well, boys will be boys” when a boy sexually harasses a female. I’m not saying it’s the same intensity, I’m saying it’s the same principle. It’s bullshit, ignorant logic that does more harm than good.
Like I’ve said, I am a very open guy. You can ask all of my friends. I’ve talked to people I’ve known for hours about intimate and embarrassing things that could be used against me very easily with the wrong people.
There’s a difference between respectfully asking someone about their life and just being an invasive asshole. If someone wants to know something, they can always ask me.
But there’s a line that no one seems to understand. Maybe I’m being overly sensitive about this but that was just rude. I don’t like feeling like someone is looking at me under a goddamn microscope. There’s a difference between asking a question and shoving yourself into someone’s business and making them uncomfortable.
So please, kindly just leave me be. You don’t have to agree with me but I’m done talking about this. My opinion isn’t going to change, and I’m still open to conversation and questions that aren’t bullshit.
Sex is sex I’m fantastic no matter what. It’s not the sex that bothered me it was the getting naked part but if you’re with someone who isn’t a complete idiot and doesn’t make you feel awkward that part is easy too.
You do realize being “post op” as a FTM doesn’t really do much for you in regards to sex, in relation to bottom half surgery right? Everyone feels awkward at first with sex, regardless of gender.
Sex isn’t as big of a deal as most people think, but in our culture it gets over-glorified. We put sex on some pedestal and think it’s the be all end all. I feel less comfortable using a stall in a public restroom than having sex with someone. I feel less comfortable talking to my mom than getting naked with my girlfriend sometimes.
As frequently/often as possible.
I’m guessing this is in relationship to TMI Tuesday but there’s a boundary with even that.
Honestly I don’t understand why people think it’s cool to ask things like this. I’m a very open and easy going guy who answers just about any question when it comes to myself. I like educating people, and helping people because I’m extremely comfortable with myself.
But what right do you have to come ask me very intimate, private details of my sex life? Do you walk up to lesbians, or gay men or any other type of people whom you don’t identify with and ask who pitches and catches, or who the “man” is in the relationship?
‘Cause that’s fucked up anonski. My sex life is between my girlfriend and myself. Now if you were off anon and a close friend, or even a stranger, or fuck, someone I’ve known at Fabcon for a couple of hours this would be different.
But alas, fuck off.
you sound like my mother
The last line ilu total homo